If you have ever elevated yourself from certain people, whether it be spiritually, financially or even physically, you are bound to have some haters.
I find that the biggest haters tend to be our own family members.
I used to have a brother who abandoned me in a psychiatric hospital when I had nowhere to go. He encouraged me to go to a homeless shelter because he was watching my baby and him and his girlfriend were plotting to use my mental illness against me to steal my baby.
Turns out she just didn’t want me to get too attached to my own baby. She wanted a daughter of her own desperately to complete her little “family”. And why would my so called brother allow that?
Well, besides indulging his BBW (without the beautiful) fetish… she paid the bills and took him on vacations to the beach. Because he paid child support to his ex-wife, his sugar momma didn’t mind that he couldnt provide for their son. With his partying and alcoholic habit in his late 30’s, he admitted to me that he only spent the max amount of $20 in the childs first year of life.
Mind you that I was a single mother at 16 and he hates on me for finally receiving help for my kids at the age of 24.
Anyway, I realized their evil intent way before they filed a CPS case with DFCS against me for my mental illness and trying to blame me for a diaper rash my baby received in their care. Thankfully the judge saw right through their pettiness. I had gotten two new jobs and got approved for a new apartment in a matter of weeks. I also started and completed the publishing for my new book Monster’s In Paradise . I did motivational speeches and expanded my business and brand.
These folks argued with DFCS and their lawyer about them returning my baby to my care. The sick, delusional bitch said I was taking HER baby!
The moral of the story is this:
The only way to defeat your haters is to stay on your grind and keep doing better each day. They say “God don’t like ugly” and karma doesn’t discriminate. Keep a clean heart, vent to a trustworthy friend if you have to. Hell you can even reach out to me.
Haters think that if they watch for long enough they can rejoice your failures, but ever so often… It’s the other way around.
In the words of Beyoncé:
“Always stay gracious, best revenge is your paper”
Empress Rellise 